Why Does It Have to Be So Hard?
by Linda Andrews
Sometimes life really does feel hard. But often, it feels even harder because, consciously or unconsciously, we’ve decided it must be that way. Maybe the decision was made years ago, and it still shapes how you experience money, relationships, work, or home life today.
The truth is: you always have the chance to ask, “How would I like to experience this?”
What if the story could shift from struggle into something easier, lighter, or even enjoyable? What if you could show up with a fresh slate today, instead of carrying the baggage of yesterday?
Michael Singer reminds us: “Life is as easy or hard as you make it.”
When challenges arise, you have a choice. You can keep looping the old patterns that make things feel heavy, or you can pause, create space, and choose a new way of being. This shift is what opens the door for clarity, resilience, and even joy.
Why Integrative Advisory Helps
At Lila Life, I guide leaders through this very process using an integrative advisory approach, a unique blend of:
Prosperity & Business Fundamentals: clear strategies, structures, and frameworks to move forward.
Wellbeing Practices: tools for nervous system support, emotional regulation, and energy alignment.
Coaching + Consulting: the mindset breakthroughs of coaching, paired with the actionable strategies of consulting.
This hybrid approach helps you see challenges from a new perspective, make empowered decisions, and move through transitions with both confidence and clarity.
About Me
I’m Linda Andrews, founder of Lila Life. With a background that spans finance, wellness, and entrepreneurship, I know what it’s like to feel stuck in struggle, and what it takes to move into possibility. My mission is to help you align prosperity, purpose, and wellbeing so you can thrive without burning out.
If life feels harder than it needs to, consider this your invitation to explore a different way.
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